How Computer Class In The 80's Prepared Me With Those Paying Attention

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MacIntoch Anyone?

Commands, Commands, Commands

Doogie Howser?

Children and adults who have a great memory tend to fare well in the computer world.

They "Cache" all they see. Like how a "Central Processing Unit" a Hard Drive would. Great if one can use theirs to remember things last seen or done if at time doing so it was committed to memory. The more you try to remember the more one should be good at chunking information for later recall.

The procedure to logging on in the 80's has not changed, just how we on the user end see it has.

Computers run off of commands. You in the 80's learning to turn on your computer or go to a program on it like the word processor entered commands to get there.

Coding is the same thing as in commands.

So if you remember all one had to go through just to get to a program on their 80's computer, then you will understand that nothing has changed much. Just what the person using the easier to understand interface one sees has changed and a programmer making it less complicated to use is more the trend. This is a very vague statement and not meant to teach programming basics, just point out some correlations.

User experience has been at the forefront of technology since the beginning of man. Technology is nothing new, just how it is used. It is not a mystical new age term either. Technology is seen throughout history, a subject that use to be my favorite in school along with the sciences. Well off to more to do in getting things together for my first patient I am returning to tomorrow. Slowly but surely my patient roster is growing and less than a month. Side Note, I know but that is how I am. We will delve into this correlation at a later time. Aaaaaand I 'm off.

No Data, No Presence In Sight (Insight), So Had To Block You Boo

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Sometimes when you are not getting supported but copied, you learn not to share it all even if you been saying it in a blog, in content you have been sharing for years or reaching out to some telling straight up what is what.

See, some just hate on you behind your back and still befriend you to take from you. When you see this re-positioning, you must protect. This may mean some you are cool with need to be blocked. Not because you do not trust them, you just do not trust their cameo loving colleague. Some do not want to be associated with those who front like they know just to watch what you do. I find it not fair if one does something to fund their initiatives for a phony to come in and hurt those efforts. Too many came in and still see what? "No Data for you (In My Cookie Monster Voice).” Why is that if you know what you are doing the past over three years nothing? This one person I refer to knows who they are. Remember the blogs you tried to point my way still not picked up? I saw this person making cameos, I had to bounce after informing the party I had to leave alone. I cannot stand that aspect of a start-up when many conspire to "Try It" but you have the last laugh for now. Sweet is the vengeance you had nothing to do with. Do not claim things you cannot prove outside the bubble. Just don't. Any who, I am off to bed soon or not. Always an email or inbox right at the moment I want to log off. Or I am so into seeing how some things online are faring just to brainstorm during insomnia sessions how to factor them in. My mind races and just a must to let it. So I am finally able to spread my wings and branch out even more. Residual income is the goal to support initiatives and the youth who need it. ‪#‎Zoepreneurs ‪#‎ButThatIsNoneOfMyBusiness ‪#‎KermitMemesSeriousThough ‪#‎Twisted

My Critics: Last December, Today's November In SEO

As would be when a brand shows the right stuff online, all those who matter to lend it credibility do so. This alone is one reason I cried less. Funny how one who had to even block family who were a bit harsh with comments like, "Everyone knows you do not know what you are doing" actually does. Some things one does and makes a living on should not be divulged while building their service. This was a period that really had me because this one person knew the mission or was told and forgot why things were and are presented a way. Some do not need to or want to come off technical especially if all done was to allow insight. Not to copy exactly but to take elements and incorporate in what was already being done or started up. Nice that all online, as in things I had no proof to substantiate back when scrutinize is now common overall practice in maintaining. I wonder what this sibling who, "Tried it," as a client would say is feeling now? If they even learned what one was doing by now? Sometimes those you admire and look up to hurt you the most. When they should have defended you with critics who claim and still do not see their metrics online, they were bashing you with them. Just the fact things are cached and kept online dependent on certain aspects of storage and relevance to keep. One like I knew vindication would come in provable, quantifiable results that may seem small to those who look at numbers but are what is getting HAY Online attention now. If I claimed HAY Online is to be the premiere spot to promote a certain group as to HAY Online’s About page, of course it would need to prove that where it counts. I look at credibility and ability as to who to partner with. Nice to show that numbers do not always mean everything when know how helps and behavioral analysis of a group coming after one was done. So I cannot and will not work with or harbor "Dead Ducks". Did many forget, even those listening to "The Bridge" years ago, I am here for data that no one seems to have on a sect. I have been researching over a decade a certain group that is not your typical Haitian American toted on Facebook. ‪#‎Wink ‪#‎Twisted ‪#‎AQDNB 

SEO Work Related: Then With Now Life Lessons About My Handling Splits

Part of good, good search engine optimization is coupled with brand owner authority. If you started a brand, why is it not mentioned on your profile? There are two reasons in my opinion and own practices not to: 1. You really do not want your personal private, exclusive brand to coincide with your business branding. 2. You just do not do so until a set strategic time is present to at a level governed by how public you want to be. Some like I want to keep things privy to a select certain few they rigorously network with.

See, on the social media tip, I keep my status a way(Close Friends) to better learn and share. I want to be resourceful but to those who truly want to be inclusive to my agenda "Brandwise".

Personally, I see need to separate after what I put myself through.

Side Note(Side Tracked Extra ;) )I say, "What I put myself through", because the situations in the past were me introducing my world to the wrong people, it was me who hashed deals with the wrong people and it is me who has to rectify each matter. We all make mistakes and we all should learn from them. We all should understand one's decisions is their own. As I always, no matter my personal reservations on a matter feels, will respect another's decision to distance from me as I have many before and since. Just my thoughts on splits. I reach out and if the old way of responding changes, I must too.

I use to keep emailing to ask what is up? No reply. I keep my communications not to share but to share with the party to show dates, message and errors in many areas on my part or theirs.

Now, it is a set two weeks and no longer do I keep tabs. I 're-prioritize now and find it gives time for deep tunnel vision. Like the universe's way to say, "You need to concentrate on your agenda a bit more ." I want it all as all you Zoepreneurs.

This is sooo the reason why I do not take, the same actions who saw fault in my own did the same I do now as in distancing, much to heart. #SelfPreservation #MovingOn  #UniverseSilentlyDoesUntoOthersAsTheyTooDid

Grind: Vacations Mean A Differing Thing To Me

Grind even when away is the only way to stay on top of it all. I had to take one from certain things to recoup. Some are too much. Vacations are taken from work not hobbies or one's own free time pass times. One just give me more time to HAY since so much in foundations need to be still laid for the next ten to fifteen years. 

Pay Up: Thanks for Doing Business with Us

Subject Line In My Email: Thanks for doing business with us.

Body Text/Message:

Hello from Google,

We're attaching a copy of your monthly invoice, detailing your Google Enterprise activity, for your records. There's no action required on your part as we'll continue to charge you automatically using the payment info we have on file.

This here is how one must see to do some things deemed integral to their brands well-being. Automatic payment so one does not have suspension of service. No matter into what I do or not, one must keep important tools covered in advance. Just in case something comes up, at least you know the important things to keep company running smooth online are taken care of. I need more storage space and functionality than the free Gmail accounts offer. I recommend anyone who wants to build a strong Startup presence should get a paid account that allows smooth communication, file sharing and integration among your company’s team members or colleagues.

This use to be an area I had problems with until I took this matter seriously.

Budgeting Thoughts: Google Billing Email Made Me Think Of This

Google billing is cute. They are something else and do not play though about their payments. Straight cut off quick. Best to just leave a good sum in your account to just take from. Pay up as much upfront. 

Look at necessary expenses to keep brand afloat online in annual cost amounts. Meaning if it cost $60 a month for a platform or tool then multiply the amount ($60x12=$720 annually) by twelve months. Now this is a better representation of what must be on deck or worked towards having or paying off monthly. 

Either way it is covered it needs to be if anything started that is part of "Training The Web" is to stay consistent. 

HAY Online Media services rendered for cash helps keep necessary platforms covered that must stay consistent. We work around the startup woes by working to stay afloat. This effort also must build up a clientele as well. 

So in all one must always have multiple hustles to keep things going. Always start with what you can manage and maintain on a twelve month basis not month to month. So if you cannot afford $60 then do $30 for twelve months. 

So, the take away is to just start things you can keep consistent no matter life circumstances and interruptions. At least two to three things continuously updating on different platforms that are leading ones within your brands market.

Side Note: This helps establish a brands online presence. A brand online needs to understand eventually the budget for promotion online will include the maintenance budget. While promotion on different platforms is a must, not all are to be promoted on continually. Some are just for the season, while others should always be a factor in a brands specific online branding strategy. This is why so much focus in the beginning needs to be in "Training The Web" about your brand and community building while branding online.

Feeling Better: Sometimes One Must Do What Was Uncomfortable To

Sometimes you make the right choices for your brand and motives that are learned after making so many redundant wrong choices. So many told me to stop doing so much and I found reasons to keep people or projects that were not mutually beneficial because I saw how I still could benefit. Yet the emotional ties have one taking things a way. In my case it was the fact so much work went into what many deemed just posting. The keeping brand name in all done on back end that helped them. The learning when to post at optimal times that benefited them. The always asking information of many who ignored the reach out that would benefit them. The time tying in relevance they did not do and still have not to make it sensible online to benefit them. So much more done to benefit others who can easily just go about theirs while you are left with bull to listen to and see. So I no longer have those problems because I finally listened to many who saw my gripes. My relentless nature can also have me barking up the wrong trees. The ones that bare no fruit for me. So as I stop the traction on my end as in network wise for many, all the association, co-citation and so many other SEO practices used to build up online presence go down the drain. Yet, you know why I am not bitter and never could be? Well, what many fail to understand is the more sharing you is ideal. The funny thing about it is if twenty images found under a result were from your network and you stop sharing them, their content associated with you dwindles to lower result levels. Like row fourteen of images or page ten of a search. So in the end I am not hurt at all. This is something I learned myself and see it happen much. So I hope many have great people in their corner willing to do it all to make sure their content is visible in the right diverse places. I know I will continue to only for those who are on board now. I no longer look for partners and will never put so much midnight oil hours into anything more than it is done for me.

SEO Work Related: Copyright Issues and Why I Love Partnerships

Safe way to protect against copyright issues is to make sure on your hub you clearly state it is not yours, then make sure it is in the description in a natural way, link it to the source initially and try to use watermarked images. From the moment it is shared by you who is being detected, please state it is not yours and just get permission if it is a must. One thing too is just partner with those who understand the mutual benefit of association and share their content freely knowing no one is coming at you. No one is going to report you to Google, Facebook or any platform they see you doing them a great service. I personally just stop sharing some. I will never revisit that avenue for many reasons. The main one is principle and the way the web works right now. It is an honor to have someone share you. Remember people pay just to be put in front of an audience and someone just did for free. Shoot if they SEO the backend with your brand name, that is even better. It is like giving credit where it is due but the best way possible. It is a great show of respect when one sharing you does not implement tactics on back end that could easily claim till you contest it. I make sure to do this always from the start so the only connection was being shared on one of my many platforms. So why when this was my problem with a few, I use to be mad. Then as I saw what is really going on, I actually like the load off and the insight who not to share anymore. So I will go all over and delete all that brands information and just add a page about them and call it day. I had to do this with a perceived competitor. It really gets to me how many just show pure ignorance and yet they say this is what they do. Just do not get where they get their information from. Just my piece and why content creation has been the focus for a while and some designers who could not get with the program had to be left alone. Lag time in production compounded by researching best way to present finish product is another post for another day. Have a great last Saturday of May. Damn, tomorrow is Haitian Mother's Day. Soon as I am off, I will swing by and get my son so he could give his Grandma Nicole her customary card and kiss. He gets her a card on both Mother's days. I love my son. He is the reason I will always go hard. 

Partnering With Content Creators Is A Must.

 Now how to share their content is where much one can be penalized for comes into play. There are different kinds of media pacts, media partnerships or just partnerships period. How they are structured is up to the parties involved. Some on the other hand are setting theirs up all off kilter in my opinion and as to practices in online branding is concerned. Many are claiming partnerships that are a bit confusing. Though many state them, it is how they "Train The Web" on them that is off. If not continuously reiterating the partnership where it counts for your brand it is a waste to stick to whatever is being done now. This means if Twitter works best to share what your brand does then do it there more than Facebook. I did not say only promote there. I said share things telling about what your brand has to offer on the optimal platform for it. When posting whether "Real Time", postponed or queued it needs to be tying in something relevant and the back end should do the same. So titles need to be on point within the logical scheme of your brands specific "Train The Web" branding online. So the search engines get a clear picture as to your partners, your specific unique branded content marketing or promotion strategy, and can present it well online. This is why a brand has to be implementing all SEO practices whether they "DIY" it themselves or pay another to. Now as to Social Media, one must adhere to one text and link combination a day. Meaning, if the same wording and link already was shared, do not keep sharing it. Find a new way to phrase and relevant tying into campaign content link to convey same message that is specific to how you are "Training The Web". So this is one reason I state some get it, #Twisted. Though there is much to get twisted. Of to more catching up with all these gigs coming in and the car search still one with the kill switch issue which was not one just did not like having to use it. #SideNote is always me going off subject. Tootles!

Early Call: This Young Guy Is Really Growing On Me

Just some things I said to him and why. I broke it down more with him on the phone but I feel some who are struggling could take some of this pointing out. Figure what you can afford and cannot. Then from there stick within your means as in sharing your content. Content being your tracks, video, or writings. It is how you share and how consistently you do.

 Should I Share My Old Songs?

 Share the old stuff always in good ways. What I meant by this is even if the song is old, if it will play, share it. Make sure to use platforms like SoundCloud that play well on most all smart phones. There are platforms that are not so widely compatible thus limiting fans who know of you in listening on the go and new ones who cannot open your link.

 Should I Wait Till I Have Better Equipment?

Iphone music videos are also out doing many too. It really is not all so much what you use, it is how. If you do not have it like that as in money to buy good equipment, learn to use your phone's video camera well. What lighting, angles and feature manipulations on your phone works best to record. Then do vlogs that are well titled and unique that share your talents. Not all can do a great job yet some smart phones that I have used to film media were an Iphone, Samsung, and LG.

 What About Programs to Edit, Mix, and Create With?

 Better programs to edit by budgeting that first into start up needs is a must. Here I meant for you to think of what you need to do it yourself and make those your initial purchases before studio time if both cannot be done. Focus on the process to learn from and jot down what worked and did not.

 What About My Image?

 Image is everything and do not look like you are  begging. What image is, is up to the brand. Some brands want a professional image while others do not. If you want to be professional then you must from jump act accordingly. If you do not care about it because of your audience make up you want to attract do not mind, so be it.

 This kid is a beautiful trip and one of the shining examples why I started blogging under Aquarius Dawn Nancy Blog. It is a release and a way not to repeat myself. Just share the link that can help them do better or learn from my mistakes.

Haitian American Youth Online Media, Inc, The Passion Is Real

We may not have a deep connection with all the youth we promote, yet we accept all independent, Serious Entrepreneurs - Zoepreneurs L'Union Fait La Force​, youth who push themselves. The "Go Getters", the true relentless visionary willing to give it all and lose it all. Lose it all as to things and most importantly to the new unknown process from which to learn from. I want it all and I love to help those who are like in pursuit about their ambitions. #Relentless #Zoepreneur #ZoeBlood #ZoePride

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Proud Moment: When A Youth Is Learning To Let It Go And Focus

This kid is so raw. I love those who are so nice to apologize for attitudes. Yet, I am a hard ass to these entrepreneurial youth in the way I am not with the bull till they have it all together. Some take me wrong but they always get it comes from a good place. After learning from my first interaction, I refuse to waste my time. Spring boards are not supposed to invest permanently in temporary projects. Now when it turns into a partnership, then investment. Learning quick and hard. They must be referred to those who can help them better their craft, make sure they slow down and take the steps they must within their means. I love helping the online presence process. They get it because they are who HAY Online Media supports with the funds made through services provided. They need help maintaining while they get it all together. Proud of those who just get it off the bat and all who are learning to do better online. It is their world. ‪#‎Golden

Always Cover Your Ass, Get It?

From keepcalm-o-matic.co.uk

Yeah, I know the title is pretty vulgar but the point needs to be driven home. The point being, cover your ass for real. Think about it, what would you do to spy on your competition?

Okay, good you get the gist of why I said what I did. This is a dog eat dog world and online is no different. You have many who are not as creative and definitely as original as you since there is only you.

You are the kind of relentless spirit who invents things from the racy thoughts in your head.

The pioneer of industry who saw a niche and jumped in full throttle. No holding back.

You, knew what you came in to do with set goals and a business plan I hope.

You must always reinvent yourself without "Wannabe's" coming in like scavengers so un-original and obvious through their work.

The last "Pep Talk", is what this whole topic was leading to. Do not ever waste a minute again thinking about them, those "Snakes", "Energy Busters" or any hater for that matter. They obviously have to much time on their hand not doing much on their own "Whatever" to be copying you and doing as you.

It is your brand. Respecting it is protecting it. Protect, protect, protect.

Tips:

Log out of search engines of any kind and search that way about your industry, ideas and content. Some will follow all the platforms you are on and set up shop. #CoCitation Co-Citation

Do not log in with the social media plugins. Many will be notified on the platforms they pretended to befriend only for the real sole purpose to get ideas and monitor. I personally do not do this to study anyone. Once you understand information collection on the web and what is working for your opponent, you just watch to make sure they drive their message home correctly. Use the email for the account.

Make sure to be conscience of your replies and such because this too can be monitored. Not saying do not join a conversation but be wary of who is feeding off your moves and correcting theirs. The way things are online, one is supposed to set themselves apart. So copycats only can go so far before their scraping hurts them and any other tactic they use to just copy without proper credit if warranted.

Just study your competitions online presence profile and set yours apart in distinct ways. Branding is about using that thing or those things that work for you and embellish on them so to speak. Yet, do not make sudden moves without thinking of the best way to do undetected. This is why one learning the platforms they use well is also key to a great online presence. Cover Your Ass, Got it?

Letting It Out, How Much Ones Truth Can Help

At times one like me would think to give up and then a email asking for my information comes in. Then when the story is told it hits a cord since the person is in the same situation as you. I am sucker to always give help to all like me. Too many are in need of guidance and with all these organizations about, why is there such a need? If so many are saying they take up the charge, why the lack of help? My opinion, too many and I see this with a client of mine want to be "Known" but not doing much to put a dent in the disparities. Many watch what this client does and start their own org. Yet many are not even qualified to be advising. How do you with no husband, kids and life experiences share your truth to those you want to help? Where is your connection?

What happen to the cause? Yes all want their initiative and name to be known, yet the goal is to do what my client does. She shares her truth with the youth she mentors no matter if her friends, family or immediate social circle supports. Letting those you mentor know that this well put together person in front of you has a story. One that is not said in a prophetic ready to put in a post for a great read way. The real stuff that is confided in another, that youth. Like me, I was molested and he did it from the age of seven to sixteen. When many who can relate understand I too was ashamed and blamed myself. You relive the why's through them who are telling you their truth. Majority who were like me told and were silenced, the other travesty in the shame game. I went to my parents and they too asked me to keep it in the family. This is good for the girl who is angry to hear and see one like me that is willing to claim the facts and show that I have done so much since. All while I struggle with demons. No amount of therapy will erase what images come to mind. Just help deal.

This is why those like one who got a hint from one of my posts a few years back went doing a video. It was so fake to me. Like suspected, no other mention the next year publicly as the first share about the initiative? Like it was an opportunist move. The one thing, I did not go in much more then FB vent because if it is her truth that would be the same as those in my family who dismissed my feelings and many still do to this day. Many have to do as I do, move away. For me it was listening to friends say it was stupid for one to allow it. Yet many fail to understand that manipulation, threats, and alienation make it easy. If you are always home with your abuser, labeled trouble which they use to their advantage, and do not have a protective father much can go well for the molester. A child is groomed to accept the behavior that feels weird but who are they going to tell? Then when they do it is all a secret to dispel so the family is not affected. So from a real talk place ones mental is fucked up for a long time. Staying away during holidays because the perpetrator is still around and no one cares to address is my reason for the blow ups. Leaving you to deal with the emotions. One has to learn what works for them.

For me, I just have music and my thoughts I write down as my mind races. I have gotten into Crystal Healing. I go to the beach when thoughts rattle me that are so depressing and let each wave going out take the hurt and confusion away. Man, I started by going in and went into my truth. Yet, many need to understand to really stop all their bashing of another and keep it to the facts not the person. I have many I do not care for who perpetrate but much is covered up because they are not ready to let the world know they are homeless like I have been and have no qualms about sharing. Or my own sexual abuse I let others know when pertinent to. Much of my avoidance in sharing is because more than me was affected and will be effected. Yet, as years go by I find as they do not care for my mental well being to heal, I do not care about their rosy life they want to act like nothing happened in and think it is okay to bring the perpetrators name up. It is like a slap in the face I must deal with and I do. As I deal with all other domino effects due to my leaving and being outcast of the family. Many in it want to front while holding me to forgiving and forgetting a matter that has not been addressed. So my detached nature actually protects me and why I do me.

Everyday I live my truth and share it with those who need to hear it. I am not one making it my platform. I just will be that former driver for an ex that talked to the girls I use to shuttle to the club, manage or take to their private party. All of them would stop dancing or escorting just from the conversations we would have. My ex was not too happy with the resignations, lol. I felt good because many were into what they do because as I, they do not put a value on sex as in emotional connection value. It is just an act as it was when introduced at a young age. Perceptions. Their reply, "You do not act or look like someone who has gone through all you have." Yes, because I am not one to let emotions that I can detach from easily affect the matter at hand. I can get a troubling piece of news and deal with it while I get back to what is at hand which can be work, building something or giving assistance to one.

This is one reason many around me feel I can take much. Yet all the things I dealt with at a young age made me leave at seventeen and also call for my venting my irritations. Yet I cry, it may take me a while for it to come out or years even but I do eventually let it out. I use to think when young crying was for the guilty and weak. Cancer makes me cry more and make me let stress go quicker. I do not "F" with anyone who gets to me. For me it is a sensory, mental reason to get into another time. We all know who we can deal with. So I found what works for me and take my "Nancy Moments". Find your truth and do not let anyone even those you invite into your truth to tell you different. Let their advice be that while you take what works for you.

Where is the Truth?

So why I go in on the phony asses out here that keep it on. We all want better, yet many are hurting the situation "Faking It Till They Make It". Hurting young impressionable youth chances. If they do not know ones struggle how is a positive post alone going to help? How is a picture of one in a cap and gown going to help the one who lacks stability and the know how to get it? Everyone is a critic, mentor or whatever but where are the true "Meat & Potatoes" instructions? Where is the truth?

Hibernation While Still On Beast Mode

When you have to hibernate while keeping things on course the way learned when unexpectedly before.

The point of learning from past trials is how to over come planed goals that call for same environment and mental rigors of those unexpected ones with ones expected. Very proud of this progress. The point when you are so confident and comfortable with all that will be and has been. When you see your dreams coming true though you must work harder than you ever imagined, you know you will be okay. You learn through much that if you went through worst, why not go through this like a breeze? Because you already proved to yourself before through the initial times you made it out. Those you lost were later seen to be blessings, blessings you now make on a regular back into the universe those negative elements go for you to receive breathe of positivity. Exhale the negative and inhale the positive, breathe.

I am so honored for my scars that still have many healing. Just now it does not sting when sour shit is put on them as reminders. I just counter it with alcohol now that I apply. I apply my hurt and the solution. I have found my MO as to dealing and have no qualms about them. I do not deal with snakes, that will never change. I do not do well with certain ways of people and understand we do not need to be friends. I just do not have to be in their presence if I can help it. I do not accept anyone's judgement either. Last I recall, I never saw them in the trenches with me to witness all not said. Like they say, "You weren't with me shooting in the gym?" Were you?

Why I Fell Off, Just Could Not Handle It

When some you been watching for years all of a sudden get rid of all they trained the web they were about to mislead many to a booking site now. Biggest no no anyone handling ones online presence could ever do. Thus why I just had to leave this community alone as in seeking those online and on Facebook the first source for HAY features as to professionals from the community. The whole goal was to meet those "On It" online that when shared the youth online could research them and find much. Yet the confusion online I deal with and must piece together shows me why there is still a huge niche market. Even when they band together it is still in a cliquish way.

"They do not do things like that. You may be a threat to what they see you becoming." -Anonymous Ass I Blocked Twice Before for Good. This was a reply to my inbox to them on why a certain group associated with a specific page that in the beginning came after me wrong and still so slightly now. Just one thing they are not in HAY Online's league as much as they care to understand. I asked why they do not share others much that are representative of the right ways to present online and this "Numb Nuts" tells me the above reply. I knew then he did not get what I was talking about a marketing and promotion wannabe should have gotten, sharing is caring for a brands relevancy. I even offered him many tools I still use to this day since I saw nothing of their Facebook and online presence which is sadly done with now. Not surprised though but really felt as I was positioning for the future they were too. Even then I should have peeped what four years of lies, failed promises of support and gossip that would have me slap and handle them all a way. So why my happy tail does not go to many functions. I would and have stepped to many on why they were blocked, we do not talk at all and why I just stop even collaborating,

These mavericks and mavens get so much love as in people flocking to them or doing pieces that just do not cut it. Yes, be a visionary and that is not refuted for a few that are not just taking opportunity but truly down for the cause. Yet, please if you care about your brand so much, stop letting friends steer you wrong just because they do it free or for less. Really, these are not the times online for any brand online to be playing. You do not make immediate overhauls to online presence, you just do not and any SEO specialist worth their weight would tell a client who is eager to chill and take it slow with drastic website redesigns that make them loose their rank. I love the fact that even when many who turned out to be snakes were reached out to by me, all I said has come to pass and my brand is still online the way it was intended. Had I associated the way many think helps HAY Online, it would suffer worst. I have learned to stop boosting egos that just did not deserve it more than the nepotism they built well that is "Bubble Like" one thing I hate when I see key signals of one. "Bubbles", I hate with a passion and only use the biggest for work. I learn much from it that helps.

I do not state my disdain to be their provider. I personally would not ever work for many I monitor. With SEO being a field that changes, understanding many's mentality and how they just are there to scrutinize something they do not understand would never open up to that headache as I learned with many I did much for and watch them go to others doing what I call, playing.  Just facts as to practice so for many privy to my "Going Ins" it is not because of jealousy or bashing. I take this serious because over fourteen years I see many within the community that just "Half Ass" while they feel to talk about me and my ways.

Yet when I do my research, vet my own prowess, and keep doing so for past over decade my stuff stays online while theirs fizzle away. I know why and would not dare allude to it, then I would really be talking too much. See when you understand who would be coming for you while you build a community of support for the youth, you do what I did. You link up to all who seem to be "Mover' & Shaker's which if anyone use to follow well from the start, HAY Online use to feature them until SEO and online tactics were mastered. The once well-known I though personality that charged me $400 to promote a Haitian Jonas event I sadly learned was another pod/clique relevant promoter and could not ever do for me what I have done for self. As my numbers grew and presence their own company was using Flash websites all wrong, promoting on one station affiliated with their own nonprofit but because I did not know anything about the Haitian community I entrusted those I thought could help. Sadly was I mistaken. While they had a buzz among a crowd that was never my intended target, I thought their work would get to mine. Until the cold asking in the streets of my demographic target started. None knew of the people I learned of and thought were the "It" crowd and still to this day they are unknown. So my leaving the community alone is not just for the games many idiots play with me wrong it is also because I learned something the past four years. The past four years was all "Smoke in Mirrors", the put on. Just my thoughts.

Life Lesson: I Have Moved On, Change In Effect

Today this Mother's Day Sunday, thanks to "Mama D" and Drieve, I started on a new path that affords me the flexibility I needed while making the income to keep on. The only difference is I have learned enough since 1998 when I left home.

I learned so much about myself with the patterns that lead to successes and the ones that lead to downfalls. When you are the one who knows your life. What many say about you to your face who do not know the root why you are treated a way or why you have it tough most of the time, can get to one. Yet, through life's journey and my health reasons I learned quickly to nip those things in the bud that got to me.

One being what people say about me in my face publicly and rumors I hear when brought to my attention. I was there during the times many try to postulate the why's to the little they are told or see. So it gives me solace to know that finally I got what I always longed for. One who understood those like me who truly rejoices in the smallest of acts, can understand why for me, I must acknowledge it.

The act of one being that figure and chance all know one needs and should receive but for some it is not easy to attain when all around you have the "They will be fine" attitude towards. Well I was not and those who dropped the ball should have known better. Known better than to tell their seed they allowed things to be purposely to teach a lesson. Now to come to that same seen at 25 and admit with a late apology they were sorry for holding me back. Sorry does not cut it for all who thought I was a chicken with their head cut off when all I was, was a young girl looking for a home, for real, for real.

Many will never understand why one like I with so many rings of a sad onion to still peel to overcome has to do all this. Some parts I let rot out with them the idea of ever rehashing and making it right. It is not fair to me who has moved on to let anyone come in years later and look for closure. My mental does not need it nor does my health. I wish many who say things along the lines, "Do not rob them of closure," yet they robbed me of 28 years of so much. I waited until my mental was more important. Nancy was more important, which is the ultimate reason my life is how it is. I never put myself first and as I learned to more people had to go. No time for the setbacks and feel that I confronted and discussed all my gripes over and over to switching stories tactics, blatant avoiding the set meeting with pastor and those involved and so much from the age of 10 when much was known. So unannounced to many who feel to lay their opinion, I did my part at ages I was not even supposed to be the one initiating them. So I learn to stop feeling like I must explain because when many realize they are never told the full story, one will do what I do to many now, just listen. I tell all now who come to me with their issues I only know of what you said here is my opinion. No more is one like I going to lay it down as if I have full command of another's truth. #LifeLeassons. 

Reflections: Strategy, Strategy, Strategy Should Be Unique Just Study Competition MO

Modus Operandi Image from The Crafty Print

When all strategies are coming into play well. What one may assume is always not the case. When constant content must be shared, it truly is how it is shared. It is one thing for all involved to contribute their part and have found the best collaborations for HAY Online Media is with "Beasts" like it. When you deal with people who truly have a passion for what they do and it is not an opportunist move. Those who will be in the trenches cranking out the product no matter if there was a comment, like or share as some use this as a gauge of popularity. Yet, one question: How did you know with the few places you put the information about your brand it was not something the public wanted?

Too many stop a project before it could even be shared by the right people in the right places. The "Trials & Errors" is what should be the lessons learned that educate you where to put your brand. When many compare themselves online with pages that share pictures about Haiti, I really dislike this because the person comparing their brand with this page's following forgets that images are big for anyone and a search engine. It is a no brainer that a page sharing images that appeal to those looking for a beautiful scenic picture of Haiti to brag about will get more attention, yet after that what is it they are solving as in a audience members problems? If you are a service oriented brand then you should never be comparing to a leisure page. Many need to focus on building a unique identity. Focus on finding what will get a conversation going.

Stop comparing and start setting yourself apart. That is what all are looking for and if not a website, do not claim to be. If not providing much of what you are sharing on your social media, change that strategy to share your brand as much as possible within recommended times based on your monitoring of insights which should be your new best friend. The first three to six months for many should be filled with daily and all day checking if you are in buzz and brand awareness stage. Need to learn the little audience you have you are tripping about unwarranted at this point of buzz creation. The point here is to be on the right platforms, at the right times for your brands audience behavior you learn through insights, and stay there year after year building your audience while monitoring for opportunity to make an impression that gets more interested. If a niche focus on building that niche up like a founder builds a community for real, for real. Make sure to protect, protect, protect against anyone throwing negative SEO.

It happened to me with Google by a Haitian hater who underestimated much as to how the web works and how when you put your stank on the web it makes it hard not impossible but one like me is ready. I live for things like this. A group would have to work very hard with how I was waiting for many to come at me a way. Thus why I started blogging. If many feel to be a way, I must just share the truth as to my point of view on matters. So why I will state my disdain for key individuals I do not mind one dealing with but they are nasty individuals that perpetrate to be nice I will never work with. They may be nice with their cronies and those they kisses tail, but their behavior like scared idiots is why I will always address them a way. Block them and will not let it be easy for them to copy. Idiots that still do not get it. All this time they were trying to blow up ones spot, they were supposed to focus on branching out while training the web. Those years cannot be taken back wasted in the wrong direction of reinventing without doing the right things along the way I still do not see done. SMH, anyway, have a productive day! I know I will.