Where is the Truth?

So why I go in on the phony asses out here that keep it on. We all want better, yet many are hurting the situation "Faking It Till They Make It". Hurting young impressionable youth chances. If they do not know ones struggle how is a positive post alone going to help? How is a picture of one in a cap and gown going to help the one who lacks stability and the know how to get it? Everyone is a critic, mentor or whatever but where are the true "Meat & Potatoes" instructions? Where is the truth?